Quit waiting for a superhero to save you

 

The only person responsible for saving you is YOU!

 

I have been known from time to time to be called Wonder Woman. Unfortunately, it is not due to our similar looks, physique and strengths.

 

A little bit of background

 

My husband had been away for 6 months, give or take a day or two. And although it wasn’t easy, the house and business have been run as they should have.

 

Did I do it alone? HELL NO!

Did I have things in place to help? Hell YES (wine being top of the list)!

 

In order to keep myself sane, I needed to form habits, create systems and set a routine to keep me going.

Every military wife will tell you, it is the ROUTINE that saves them when hubby is off galavanting and saving the world.

 

Weekly Schedule

 

This is the schedule that I followed during the week:

 

Monday

Each Monday I would plan for the week ahead. I would sort out anything that needed sorting, figure out where I needed to be and most of all get as much done as I possibly could.

 

Tuesday

Tuesdays would involve studying and working late. Then I would reward myself, usually with crap TV shows, like Geordie Shore, Love Island, Ex on the Beach, etc.

 

Wednesday

Every Wednesday was a tidy-up day, which meant getting the house ready for the cleaner to come in and do her thing.

 

Thursday

All the washing would be done on Thursday, ready for the ironing lady to do her thing!

 

Friday

This was my wind-down night. And then the weekend would be for Jess and me to spend time together, with a little work for me.

 

Daily Habits that Helped

Creating and sticking to daily habits ensured that I did what needed to be done. For example…

 

  • Getting the school uniform out and ready each night.
  • Only allowing Jess to use her iPad when she was dressed and ready for school and her room was tidy.
  • Jess has daily medication to take, so this would be done daily just before her hair was done (this trigger meant it was never forgotten because you never sent your girl in without her hair done).
  • If Jess had a cooked lunch at school, she would have a small tea. If she had a packed lunch at school she would have a hot dinner.
  • Between 3-5 pm it was all about Jess. So this would usually entail soft play, going to the park, movies or shopping.

Why am I telling you this?

 

I’m telling you this because we all have multiple responsibilities we need to manage. This schedule and these habits are something you can adapt for your business too.

 

Remember, you are defined by your daily habits and the success or failure of your business will be down to what you do day in and day out. And your goals determine your habits.

 

Period.

 

What are your goals?

 

Figure out what is important to you to you and what it is you want to achieve.

 

My Goals Included the Following:

  • I wanted Jess and me to have quality time together
  • I wanted her to eat well
  • I needed to stay on top of her meds
  • I wanted her to have fun and help me where she could (tidying her room, sorting the dishwasher, good listening, etc.)
  • I wanted to keep on top of things and not feel overwhelmed

 

Our daily habits reflected what we wanted to achieve and if we hit them, we rewarded ourselves accordingly at the end of the week. Jess preferred the cinema and cuddly toys. I was more inclined towards gin, wine or new outfit.

 

So ask yourself…

What do I want to achieve?

What am I willing to do consistently to achieve it?

How will I measure my success?

And finally, how will I reward myself for taking consistent action?

 

Use those answer to draft your plan of action and get out there and accomplish your goals!

 

Do you want to get systems in place, build new habits and smash those goals?